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Equal Enough?

Adapted from: “Our favorite “f-word”: The misconceptions of feminism in Uni and mainstream culture” By BETH LARSON and LARA ORLANDIC

One popular way of dismissing the present-day feminist movement is the common misconception that men and women are “equal enough” in our society.

“Things have just gotten so much better for women. It’s very easy for women to take feminism for granted, and there are a lot of benefits and privileges that we as women living in 2011 enjoy that came as a result of hard fights.”

Since the Women’s Liberation Movement changed women’s status in society so drastically, people tend to overlook the present-day gender inequalities. Even though men and women are considered to be politically equal, there is a long way to go until both genders are socially and economically equal.

Feminism is commonly associated with choice, and although women have more choice in society today than in previous decades, it is important to note that the political and social contexts in which women make choices are not equal. For example, women are more likely to pursue a career in the humanities or social sciences, while men are encouraged to pursue technical careers, such as engineering or business.

According to the United States Bureau of Labor Statistics, in 2010, women earned 81.2% as much as men did, for all professions. Even in nursing, which is a stereotypically female occupation, women are only paid 86.5% of the amount of money that male nurses earn.

The same report also showed that the most popular careers among women are registered nurses and elementary/middle school teachers. The least popular careers are computer programmers and occupational therapists. In general, there is a higher percentage of women doing lower-paying jobs (housekeeping, waiting tables, etc.) than jobs with higher salaries (surgeons, lawyers, computer software engineers).

The idea that men and women are now “equal enough” seems to quite prevalent in my opinion. While women have made huge leaps and bounds for their rights in the past 50 years there is still much that can be accomplished. We should be pleased with equal ENOUGH, we should strive for complete equality and tolerance for all.



Her Kind, by Anne Sexton

I have gone out, a possessed witch,
haunting the black air, braver at night;
dreaming evil, I have done my hitch
over the plain houses, light by light:
lonely thing, twelve-fingered, out of mind.
A woman like that is not a woman, quite. I have been her kind.
I have found the warm caves in the woods,
filled them with skillets, carvings, shelves,
closets, silks, innumerable goods;
fixed the suppers for the worms and the elves:
whining, rearranging the disaligned.
A woman like that is misunderstood.
I have been her kind.
I have ridden in your cart, driver,
waved my nude arms at villages going by,
learning the last bright routes, survivor
where your flames still bite my thigh
and my ribs crack where your wheels wind.
A woman like that is not ashamed to die.
I have been her kind.

The negative connotation of the word “feminism” explained

Adapted from: “Our favorite “f-word”: The misconceptions of feminism in Uni and mainstream culture” By BETH LARSON and LARA ORLANDIC

When someone mentions the word “feminism,” the first thoughts that come to our minds are about the brave women involved in the Women’s Liberation Movement during the 60s and 70s. These women fought to give the women of our generation many rights that we take for granted.

If our generation is truly grateful for everything that these women have accomplished, why do so few young women wish to identify themselves as feminists?

Over the years, in many instances the word “feminist” was used with negative connotations. How has such an inspirational term transformed into a derogatory insult? The answer lies in the history of the word, and in what it means to be a feminist in America.

The term “feminism” originated from the French word féminisme, first used in 1837 by the French philosopher Charles Fourier. Fourier wanted to improve the status of women in society, but he did not advocate equality between the sexes. The first English definition of “feminism” appeared in the Oxford English Dictionary in 1895: “advocacy of the rights of women (based on the theory of equality of the sexes).”

As the waves of the Women’s Liberation Movement passed in the nineteenth and twentieth centuries, feminism began to assume the meaning with which it is associated in present-day American society: “the theory of political, economic, and social equality of the sexes,” according to the Merriam-Webster Dictionary.

Some interpret feminism to mean that women should have the right to chose whichever lifestyle they please. Others may interpret it to mean that women and men should be considered equals in all aspects.

As usual with controversial topics, feminism has been widely misinterpreted throughout history.

“The feminist agenda is not about equal rights for women,” said Pat Robertson, a television evangelist and former Baptist minister during his GOP convention speech in 1992. “It is about a socialist, anti-family political movement that encourages women to leave their husbands, kill their children, practice witchcraft, destroy capitalism, and become lesbians.”

Although most misinterpretations of feminism are not so radical, many have degraded feminists or might have discouraged women from joining the feminist movement. In 2004, the conservative political commentator Rush Limbaugh popularized the term “feminazi,” arguing that feminists’ views towards abortion are comparable to atrocities committed by the Nazis.

Perhaps these public denouncements of feminism are part of the reason our generation has misinterpreted feminism as a negative term. Many of the student interviewed claimed that men and women are equal in our society, so feminists must be complaining for no reason. In addition, we have heard an increasing number of people argue that feminists wish to elevate women above men in society, a concept foreign to feminism ideology.

Strong evidence shows that this change in people’s views toward feminism was caused by the “conservative backlash” against liberal issues, which emerged after the counterculture movement of the 1970s. Counterculture introduced an influx of liberal ideas and issues, which triggered an adverse reaction by conservatives. Thus people’s viewpoints became increasingly polarized.

I strongly believe we should take back the word feminism and what it truly stands for. We shouldn’t let the definition be bullied into a meaning with which the first feminists would not agree with. It’s a sad day when free thinking, intelligent women choose not to identify themselves as feminists because the word’s meaning has been marred by people who chose to not try to understand it. As with many other issues, I believe the key to fixing the problem is education. Both women and men today need to be properly educated in what the term feminism means and implies. I hope one day all women, and men, won’t be ashamed to call themselves believers in feminist ideals.  


A Visit from Mother

Much of my life would send my traditional Catholic conservative parents in such a shock that they would think that they lost their daughter to drugs or demons or both. Exorcism anyone?

Fuck that. For the first time in my life, after not seeing her for six months, I responded to her as I wanted to, as uninhibited adult me. I stood up to her consistently, using my mind, backed by the space these months have given me. As best as I could, I addressed and challenged the little remarks and looks, the stories and reactions that have been her tactical modes of bullying or imposing her values on me since I was little.

I’m proud of myself but I’m feeling the pains of letting her role in my life go. She said she felt it too between her tears and hiccups of telling me I’ve changed and she doesn’t know me anymore and I don’t know what love is and I never knew her and I’m wrong for being angry at my father and I’m ungrateful and so on. That hurt me a lot. She told me her loyalty is with my father, not me, not my brothers any more. I guess I understand.

I never felt like she was such a child, so blind or closed-minded as I have in these past few days. I fear that she and I will never be as close as we once were. But were we to be as we once were, I would have to live based on more lies and self oppression. Regression. When we were so close I would flap around the deep-end of their pool of tradition and didn’t have the courage or space or time or knowledge or experience to get myself out. If our relationship was close when we both were choking together, snagged on nets in murky but warm water, then the previous closeness of our relationship is something I will choose to let go. I’m not a child anymore. And maybe that’s the difference between us.

It hurts me that I can’t rescue her. But she says things have changed. 

– M